Let me introduce you to a friend that has been plagued with a puzzling question. She wonders, "What exactly am I doing with this guy?" and "What is the etiquette when it comes to this situation?"
She simply wanted to meet someone, therefore one day she decided to open an online profile to meet people. Simple enough, soon the responses flooded her inbox, some good, some bad, some ugly. After a couple of months she met someone that she liked enough to meet in person.
After about a week of texting and talking on the phone they decided to meet.
Then came the dates, about 3 times a week.
Thursday, Friday, Saturday...they spent together.
After the first week together she noticed the he removed his online profile, later telling her that he seriously wanted to try this with her, therefore he saw no reason to continue searching. (She smiled on the inside at the thought of this)
After two more weeks out of fun she went back to the site to see that he has once again opened his online profile. She did not know how to react. What is this suppose to mean? Can I even bring it up?
She brought it up lightly, he simple said " I like to read my inbox every now and then that is all, I am happy with what we have."
She left it alone, but here is the thing, she is still bothered by this. She knows the he is on that site about once a day, of course she has kept checking it.
Here is my questions to you all.
What do you think about this situation? What doe sit mean? Does she even have a right to say anything? To tell him to erase it completely? Is it cheating, or intent to cheat? What would you do?
What is the etiquette when you meet someone through a dating site? When do you bring down the profiles?
Ok, too many people keep thinking this is about me, this is not ME! If it were me I would say so, I have never been afraid to be honest about who I am. So just to clarify, this is not my situation, I simply wanted opinions on this so I can discuss with the person that is going through this.
